Jason Darwin McPhie

Dec 28th,1976 -Aug 24th,2008

Obituary:
NIBLEY, UTAH - Jason Darwin "Little Speed" McPhie" J.D", "Jase", (31), was born on December 28th 1976 to the proud parents, Darwin "Speed" and Jean McPhie. He was the fourth child and little brother to three loving sisters. Sunday August 24, 2008, Jase accepted a full time position on Heavens Olympic Football Team where he will specialize in both offense, and defensive tight end, and special teams. Jase touched so many lives with his determination and positive attitude. He has been such a great example to all who knew him. He will be greatly missed, especially his contagious smile. J.D. was an avid skier, and unfortunately was injured in a ski accident at Snow Basin, in Ogden UT, on December 24, 1993. His accident left him paralyzed from the shoulders down, with many other disabilities. With the help of his parents, sisters, and great nurses, Jase lived a very full life for the past 14 1/2 Years. He fought through many hardships always coming out on top. He especially enjoyed celebrating his birthday each year with all of his family and friends who came to share it with him. Jase excelled at everything he did, from schoolwork to the sports that he played. He especially enjoyed baseball and football, and played both for Mountain Crest High school. He played for State Championship Games, both his sophomore and junior Years. J.D. had two hero's growing up, His Daddy and his Grandpa Jack. He was his Daddy's shadow, and His Grandpa's "little fiest", often following them around like a little puppy dog, hammering nails into everything in sight. His specialty was building "Love Boats" at the age of 4 that reached the lengths up to 30 ft. His biggest creation was finishing his Mama and Daddy's deck with every board he could find, and about 7000 nails. Jase also liked horseback riding with his daddy, and enjoyed all of their trips together. Jase is survived by his Parents; Speed and Jean, Sister's Tonya (Greg) Houston, of Blackfoot ID; Mic (Justin) Sampson, of North Logan, UT; Heather McPhie of Fairbanks, AK; His Nephews and Nieces; Marlise (Jesse) Burgi, Derek Dyreng, Taylor, Lane and Dustin Houston; Parker, Hunter, Laker Speed, and Tucker Jase Sampson; Jayden Rinderknecht, and River Quayle; and many Uncles, Aunts and Cousins. His Grandparents Jack and Varna Schiess, and Virgil and Velma Gibbons precede him in death. The family would like to express their deepest thanks to all of the nurses who became members of their family for all their love, and dedicated services. We would also like to send a special thank-you to Dr. Robert Nash, and all of the staff and nurses in the ICU unit at Logan Regional Hospital, for their special care and concern. A viewing will be held Wednesday August 27, 2008 from 6 - 8 p.m. at Allen Hall Mortuary, 34 East Center, Logan, UT. The Funeral Services will be Thursday, August 28 at noon, at the Nibley Stake Center 3701 South 450 West, Nibley. There will also be a viewing prior to the services from 10:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. at the Church. The interment will be at the Providence-River Heights Cemetery, 900 East River Heights Blvd.

This is my cousin Jason who passed away this week. We spent a lot of time together growing up and have so many memories with him. We are sad for his family and know how much he will be missed!

Rash

This picture is of Landon and his rash. He has had a rough summer with what the doctor thought was eczema. I was not too sure and when he broke out again on Monday I took him to the doctor who agreed he may have an allergy. He referred us to an allergist who wants to do some allergy testing. The poor kid has done really well considering what a horrible rash he has had. He is finally looking better and we will take him back this week to get some tests done. I hope we can figure out what is causing him to break out. I was talking to him about the testing and he said, "I sure hope I'm not allergic to fruit rollovers (aka fruit by the foot)!" Poor kid. We spent the day at Mary Jane's as our air conditioning was getting fixed. It is so nice not too have it so loud and I think it will be more efficient as well. For young women's we took the girls to get a smoothie and visit our class president who works there. It is really fun to be in the YW program. It makes you realize how badly you want those teaching your kids to love their calling. You want as many good influences in their lives as possible. Jerry officiated football this weekend and was gone alot but really enjoys it. I had a jewelery party and spent time with the kids. I taught a lesson today on scripture study. I know the lesson was for me and it inspired me to re-commit to doing better on my own study. I need revelation more now than at any other time in my life and I need to provide myself with more opportunities for it to come. I am so grateful for the gospel.

Gratitude

I have been really trying to be more grateful to be a mom and wife. It is so hard at times I feel like I am being stretched to my limits but I do love my life and am so grateful for my blessings. I have been blessed with wonderful friends and I am so grateful for the encouragement and support that comes with amazing friendships. Yesterday Jerry went to SLC for his annual review. He was really pleased with the result and we are so grateful he is working for Jacobsen. They are a great company and he is really happy with them. Thanks for all the prayers and support. I love my kids. They are teaching me to be better, more patient and more loving. I pray each day for patience but I am also starting to pray to enjoy them more and take advantage of each day we spend together. I am so grateful for my husband. I could not make it without him. Even just having him in SLC for the day felt like he was too far away and I am so grateful for all he does for our family. I know the experiences we have in this life are to help us learn and grow and pray I can face all the challenges that come with faith.

Olympics

I have just been so inspired by watching the Olympics. I am also very tired and understand why TIVO is important. I am staying up so late every night to watch but I am so amazed at the Olympians and all the hard work they do in preparation to compete. I have loved watching Michael Phelps and also the women's gymnastics. Even watching Dara Torres made me think you are never too old to give up on your dreams. It makes me so grateful to live in the United States and to cheer on our amazing athletes.

Company

We have had company for the past few days. Katherine (my niece), her husband Matt and their friend Tanner came and stayed for a few days. She is expecting a baby boy in October. We are so excited for them. Tanner and Matt went hiking in Zion's, rock climbing and a few other guy bonding things. Katherine and I went to the temple, In and Out and shopped for her little baby. We had a great time. They were able to see Les Miserables at Tuachan and visit some friends as well. It's fun to live in a place where we get visitors!

Eight Months Old

Avery is eight months old! She is growing so fast. She just started saying, "Ma,Ma" which I consider a huge success since she said, "Da,Da" first! She is rolling over and sitting up well. She loves her pink pig and blanket to sleep with. She falls to sleep on her own. She is eating all sorts of food but definitely prefers bananas and all the fruit over anything else. She loves to put her face close to Dad's and rub cheeks. She is a Daddy's girl along with her sister Lauren. Her brother and sister love to play with her although they don't always know how not to make her cry. I think their "love" is just a bit aggressive at times. She loves bath time although she never gets to stay in long because we are always rushing to get her to bed. She is still taking three naps and going to bed at 7 or 8. We have not seen any teeth yet but she slobbers lots and puts everything in her mouth. It is so fun to hear her make sounds. She always gets compliments when she is out about how cute she is and her beautiful blue eyes. I can't believe another month has passed!

The Week

We finished swim lessons this week. The kids both did really well. The teacher said Landon could move up to level three. She said, "Lauren does really well, she just has a hard time listening?" I was so suprised by this comment since she always listens to everything I say..ha ha ha. So basically she can go to level three next fall. I had told the teacher she was three years old but I think they forget because she is close to Landon in size. The teacher said she was really smart which I would have to agree with. They had a good time. Lauren had two birthday parties on Saturday and Landon had one (combined with Lauren's friend because its her brother) so we spent the day doing that. Jerry had to do training because he starts high school football officiating soon. He is excited. My old mission companion Mary Jane and I went to dinner and shopping on Saturday. We have such a good time together. I am so glad she lives close. Jerry gave an amazing talk on the restoration. He did really well. He is very humble and prepares well so the Lord is able to use him to teach. Jeff Frodsham spoke as well as he is preparing to serve a mission. They are an amazing family who we truly admire. We enjoyed attending an open house for him today. We have Katherine and Matt coming tonight to stay for part of the week. We are looking forward to their visit!

Hogle Zoo

Rod and Shelby came to see us on Friday. We spent the day with them and of course we ate at In and Out. We were able to help them plan their trip to California. They left on Saturday for Las Vegas and we left for SLC. We drove to Springville and stayed with Clyde and Jeannette. Jeannette had a great lunch for us with Brent and Jill. Jill made an awesome red velvet cake....she is so thoughtful. Then we took off to Hogle Zoo for the Jacobsen summer party. The kids really enjoyed the bird show and seeing all the animals. The zoo was closed for Jacobsen so we were able to see a lot of things in a short amount of time. The carousel was definitely a highlight as well. We hope to go back sometime when we don't have to rush but loved the time we had there. Jerry and I went back to Springville and put the kids to bed and then went to visit Brent and Jill. It is so fun having them right there in Springville. We had a great time and of course laughed a lot. They are the best. The next morning we attended sacrament meeting in Springville and then drove to Holladay to visit Kevin and Lindsay. Brooklyn, Landon and Lauren have the best time playing together. Thanks for a great breakfast! We were driving back and talking to Landon about his Leapster game. Both his game and Lauren's game had dead batteries. We just kept saying, "The batteries are dead so you can't play your game!" Suddenly Landon blurted out, "Heaven must be full of batteries!" A classic kid moment.